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Got Da Job..........

Thursday, January 26, 2006

Yesterday i got job offer from Jayashree Textiles of Aditya Birla Nuvo(ABN) group.
Before accepting the offer I was drowning in the ocean of confusion, coz I’d to decide among two choices one is Grmtech which deals with the online solution which was matching with my passion and area of interest, the only problem was my educational background(Bio science)on the other hand there was Aditya Birla group which is one of the biggest group in India.

Also I’d set my priorities which were job>>career>>company>>Salary.

so if I’d selected Grmtech I would have got all four of these things also in case of Aditya Birla I saw all of them that’s why I was very confused.

My confusion increased to 100 times by my friends, all were saying you should go with Aditya Birla group so that I’ll get good start, but I was standing at my point of joining Grmtech. At last moment I took out my CV and decided that I’ll go for Grmtech but later one of my friend said that “look you are missing golden opportunity, later you shouldn’t feel regretful for it, Like you felt before when you refused one company”.
Also one of my other friend said “we all have two ways of living - we can either drive the steering of life, or we can leave it upon god”

Then I thought I should at least seat for the company if I’ll make it then I’ll think that it is Father’s decision coz I’ve nothing to loose.
Well in interview everything went well.

Later I got offer from the company.

I cry......

Saturday, January 21, 2006

You said goodbye

I fell apart

I fell from all we had

To I never knew

I needed you so bad

You need to let things go

I know, you told me so

I've been through hell

To break the spell

Why did I ever let you slip away

Can't stand another day without you

I cry silently

I cry inside of me

I cry hopelessly

Cause I know I'll never breathe your love again

I cry

Cause you're not here with me

I cry

Cause I'm lonely as can be

Did you know?

Tuesday, January 17, 2006

I don't whether these facts are facts or just another PJ but i found it really intresting...
1. In Shakespeare's time, mattresses were secured on bed frames by ropes.When you pulled on the ropes the mattress tightened, making the bed firmer to sleep on. Hence the phrase "goodnight, sleep tight".

2. It was the accepted practice in Babylon 4,000 years ago that for a month after the wedding the bride's father would supply his son-in-law with all the mead he could drink. Mead is a honey beer and because their calendar was lunar based, this period was called the honey month or what we know today as the honeymoon.

3. In ancient England a person could not have s * x unless you had consent of the King (unless you were in the Royal Family).When anyone wanted to have a baby, they got consent of the King,the King gave them a placard that they hung on their door while they were having S * x.The placard had F*.*.K (Fornication Under Consent of the King) on it.Now you know where that word came from.

4. In Scotland, a new game was invented.It was entitled Gentlemen Only, Ladies Forbidden... and thus the word GOLF entered into the English language.

Groupism vs. friendship

Saturday, January 07, 2006

Group: A number of individuals or things considered together because of similarities.

Friend: A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.

Five sharks (5th standard), RAB (7th standard), Rahon (8th standard), Bhaizone (10th standard), R.A.A.D (College), RGP (AIMK) current grp.

These are the groups that I use to belong during my school days and college life.....

I really don't have any idea why I get myself into group... maybe in search of long lasting friendship; recently I’ve realized that friendship and groupism are two different things.

In group may be you are around the person who has your kind of taste and preference but one thing is for sure that the whole group can't be you friend no matter how you try and even if you try you'll end up with no friends only group members...

Coz it's better to have few friends and in groups, members are many....

Even if I don't have ubiquitous taste and preference but I like to talk with all kind of people and interact with them, also I try to do friendship with them, most of the time I found other people very friendly and helpful.

When you are in group you can’t share your feelings and **hidden words with group coz they’ll fly your feelings in air, coz that’s the one of the motive of group – have fun.

I’m not saying that I don’t have any friends from my group in fact I’ve great friends from these groups. But right now I’m facing a great emotional crisis which is Groupism vs. friendship. From few months (from july2005) I’m noticing that my friends from the group are ignoring me (which I hate most - the ignorance from friend) the degree of ignorance has increased day by day and now I feel that they had started chuckling over me.

Sometimes I get myself into dilemma whether to go with friends or with the group. It’s a dilemma for me coz it’s like choosing one friend out of two.

What is friendship for me?

Definition of friendship in my dictionary is very simple, for me friends are those who respect my feelings, shows me right path, understand me, last but not the least who don’t ignore me.

I’ve noticed my behavior through out my life time that those who ignore me I also start ignoring that person and I never ever take any step for damage control measures. This means end of friendship which is the most painful thing for me at that time my heart breaks apart. Coz I never want to loose any of my friends.

Let’s see whether I could be able control damages this time or not, if I see my past records…. I never succeed.

**hidden words - term coined by No One