Group: A number of individuals or things considered together because of similarities.
Friend: A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.
Five sharks (5th standard), RAB (7th standard), Rahon (8th standard), Bhaizone (10th standard), R.A.A.D (College), RGP (AIMK) current grp.
These are the groups that I use to belong during my school days and college life.....
I really don't have any idea why I get myself into group... maybe in search of long lasting friendship; recently I’ve realized that friendship and groupism are two different things.
In group may be you are around the person who has your kind of taste and preference but one thing is for sure that the whole group can't be you friend no matter how you try and even if you try you'll end up with no friends only group members...
Coz it's better to have few friends and in groups, members are many....
Even if I don't have ubiquitous taste and preference but I like to talk with all kind of people and interact with them, also I try to do friendship with them, most of the time I found other people very friendly and helpful.
When you are in group you can’t share your feelings and **hidden words with group coz they’ll fly your feelings in air, coz that’s the one of the motive of group – have fun.
I’m not saying that I don’t have any friends from my group in fact I’ve great friends from these groups. But right now I’m facing a great emotional crisis which is Groupism vs. friendship. From few months (from july2005) I’m noticing that my friends from the group are ignoring me (which I hate most - the ignorance from friend) the degree of ignorance has increased day by day and now I feel that they had started chuckling over me.
Sometimes I get myself into dilemma whether to go with friends or with the group. It’s a dilemma for me coz it’s like choosing one friend out of two.
What is friendship for me?
Definition of friendship in my dictionary is very simple, for me friends are those who respect my feelings, shows me right path, understand me, last but not the least who don’t ignore me.
I’ve noticed my behavior through out my life time that those who ignore me I also start ignoring that person and I never ever take any step for damage control measures. This means end of friendship which is the most painful thing for me at that time my heart breaks apart. Coz I never want to loose any of my friends.
Let’s see whether I could be able control damages this time or not, if I see my past records…. I never succeed.
**hidden words - term coined by No One